We had another great trip with the Pershings at their family cabin. We could not have picked a better husband or inlaws for Bella. All our kids get along and Jen and Adam are easy going and fun. We had a blast just chilling by the fire, building puzzles, and playing games (I also enjoyed reading a book). We went hiking, went out for pizza and made a Goodwill run. It was a perfect weekend 💕
"The less we want the more we have. The simpler we make our lives, the more abundant they become." Janene Wolsey Baadsgaard
Sunday, November 20, 2022
Pershing Cabin Fun
We had another great trip with the Pershings at their family cabin. We could not have picked a better husband or inlaws for Bella. All our kids get along and Jen and Adam are easy going and fun. We had a blast just chilling by the fire, building puzzles, and playing games (I also enjoyed reading a book). We went hiking, went out for pizza and made a Goodwill run. It was a perfect weekend 💕
Twins pranking
Sunday, October 16, 2022
Cruising
Spirit week at school
Of course my new school had spirit week. Some day's themes were better than others. We had twin day, sport day, solid color day, dress for success day and free dress Royal day. The school mascot is the Royals so naturally I dressed like a royal queen..the only adult to do so. The kindergartners loved it. A coworker took a picture and I made it to the school Instagram. It's the little things.
Thursday, October 6, 2022
Necessity the mother of invention
Sunday, September 25, 2022
24 years and we still got the heat!!
It's crazy that Benjamin and I have been married for 24 years. 24...that feels like a big deal.
We started the anniversary trip with a vow renewal with going to the Mesa temple. Very serendipitously Benjamin's mission president and wife were working at the temple. They are lovely people. I told President Udall I was praying for my son to have a mission president that he looked up to as much as Benjamin. It is my constant prayer.
We celebrated with a two night trip in Show Low Arizona. Lately we have picked small towns to visit. We love eating local food, hiking, catching a festival, market event and thrift stores. This time we had the added bonus of visiting with one of my favorite friends Alison Altop. Unfortunately her husband was off on a wildfire assignment. We met her for ice cream. It was great to catch-up. The next day we hiked, ate cinnamon rolls the size of our heads and caught a murder mystery movie at the theater. On Sunday we went on another hike, went to the only covered bridge in Arizona and caught church with Alison. We also ran into our friends Becky and Brandon Clark. It was great to see them and catch up. They were a fun couple that we hung out with in our early marriage. Time moves so quickly year to year. There kids are adults now, in almost 5 years we will be in the same boat.
There are lots of things I would do differently in life, little things. I would change them because once you know better you do better. Who wouldn't want to do better?! Of all the things I would change one thing I wouldn't change is Benjamin. For a woman who often has buyers remorse this statement means a lot. I love him for forever and a day.
When we got home the kids (Olivia and Holman) made an excellent meal, grilled chicken, broccoli, homemade mac n cheese and homemade rosemary bread. It was a perfect ending to a great weekend 💕
Sunday, September 11, 2022
Labor on Labor Day Nana i!
Nana always holds a several day celebration for her birthday. It centers around a service project. This year she hosted everyone at her and Papa's mission at Camp Zion on Mnt. Lemon.
The Smith and Holman Jr's were there. Some slept in the loft others camped outside. It was lovely. We ate yummy meals, played volleyball, shot BB guns, used a bow and arrow, and played basketball. We all had a blast!
Mom and Dad showed the video about our ancestors Cornelius and Adriana Zappeij. The church produced a video about their service and sacrifice in Holland as they helped fellow saints in Germany. It was during a critical time following world war ll where relations were very tenuous between the two countries due to Hitler's regime. The dutch saints gave their full potato harvest to their former enemies. It set the stage perfectly for the service we did the next day around camp.
We painted several railings, steps and amphitheater benches.
As always it was a great time. We sure love Nana (and Papa) and her constant energy and enthusiasm for life. She is a woman of faith and fortitude. She is our rock and we love her 💕


































