15 years baby!!!

Benjamin and I celebrated our 15th anniversary on September 19th! We celebrated by going to Vancouver Canada! It was the farthest we could could go for the cheapest price :) We went to the Vancouver temple, hiked the Grouse mountain, biked around the beach and ate at yummy restaurants, road a few boat rides went to a street festival, road the train and had a fantastic time together. It was the perfect amount of time for a get away and thanks to my awesome in-laws. thanks Grandma Babs, we were able to do it!

15 things I love about Benjamin!

15. Right from the start he was always so open about his feelings, never felt the need to play it cool. I think it is because he is who he is, he doesn't pretend to be anything but himself, he is genuine.
14. He is faithful. Everyone has weaknesses, through Benjamin's he has never questioned if there is a Heavenly Father or if there really is a Savior. He wholeheartedly believes in our Redeemer.
13. He is extremely good looking and doesn't realize it. He could have married a Barbie but instead chose the girl next door!
12. He works so stinking hard!
11. He is so complimentary of me, never criticizes my housework, culinary efforts, mothering techniques you name it, he is positive.
10. He can fix almost anything! I can count on one hand how many times we have needed to call a repair man.
9.He enjoys working out and being active just as much as me. We love family hikes and moving.
8. He gets excited about holidays, trips, events, he loves to plan them.
7. He is funny. When we first met I didn't know if he would be goofy enough for me, but he is!
6. He enjoys helping others.
5. He is an excellent counselor and gives me great perspective.
4. We both share a love of ice cream. That has on many occasions brought us out of hard times.
3. He loves family, the one he came from, the one he married into, and the one we created.
2. He loves our children! He always trys to be a present parent.
1. He loves me unconditionally. He writes messages to me around the house. Whether he writes,  I love LJ  with paint on a mirror or leaves a note on the white board. I love every message and every hug. I love this strong, faithful man! 15 years baby!

A Halloween miracle!

We have had a White Yukon for several years, The car originally was very nice but over the years has had many electrical problems. So many prayers have been said over this car, we have inwardly hoped that it would get stolen and have even fantasized over locations in Tucson were this would likely happen.  On Saturday October 26th we had stayed home most of the day. At 2 o'clock I had left to go to Savers to get some last minute costume items. When I got into the Yukon it had this weird electrical smell. I called Benjamin out to have him smell ,we both couldn't figure out the location of the smell and decided it was ok to drive. The smell proved to be too much. Later that night we took the car to a friends house for a Halloween party, when we got home we cracked the windows over night hoping the smell would go away and leaving the windows high enough so that cats could not climb in and pee inside.

At around 11:00 pm at night I wake up to what I thought was a buzzer sound form one of my child's pee alarms that we had just purchased. I went to that child's room and the alarm wasn't coming from the child. I followed the noise to the front of the house, I opened the front door to find our Yukon's ceiling  engulfed in flames! The buzzing sound was the horn, as soon as I opened the front door the horn died. I ran to wake Benjamin. I said to him "Benjamin wake up the car is on fire, call 911!"  He called them and then we ran outside to see what we could do, our neighbor woke up to the sound of the horn saw the flames and ran to get a fire extinguisher. Benjamin and I both grabbed hoses and sprayed water inside the quarter-rolled -down windows. We luckily had the fire out before the fire department even got there. They finished the job and the verdict was the car was totaled! The fireman confirmed our suspicions of it being an electrical  problem the engine wasn't touched but the inside was a complete wreck!

The amazing thing was that none of our children woke up! That it happened when we were home and not on a date! And for the first time in my life I was grateful that I did not have a garage or carport! The fireman said it could have been so much worse or even fatal had their been a house attached!

To add to our drama Benjamin and I (thanks Bishop) had to speak the next day. I was able to use this crazy and miraculous story in my talk, I spoke of being grateful in spite of hard circumstance. I referenced the book the " The Hiding Place" seriously one of the best books of all time. Two sisters who once lived in a concentration camp because of their efforts to try to hid Jewish Dutchmen, they were inspired to pray for all things, even the fleas in their camp. One of the sisters questioned why must we pray for all things and even the fleas?! Later they found out why they should be grateful for all things, it was those fleas that kept the brutal guards away from their barracks and enabled them to spread the Christian message of love and hope from our Savior Jesus Christ. Well this Yukon has been a flea to us! The lord knew exactly how we could get rid of this nusance without any severe collateral damage.

Later we prayed that we could get a reasonable amount of money for this, with the hopes we could purchase another car. I admit I did not believe the insurance company would give us a reasonable price. Benjamin however faithfully prayed for a specific price. Later the insurance company got back to us with the exact price Benjamin had prayed for, a price that Kelly Blue Book didn't even predict for our car!! We bought a new car, a van, less miles per gallon, newer, smaller but it still fits our needs and better yet, still no car payment! I still have no carport but mind it a whole lot less now :)
 

Halloween

I Love Halloween!  Being a preschool teacher I know how much little children love to dress-up and use their imaginations in make believe worlds. My kids are no exception, Bella was a gypsy ( a popular choice for a middle-school-er) For the last couple of years Olivia has had a costume revolving around a card board box. She has been a dice, a rubix cube and a red box machine. Benjamin has been the maker of these costumes and plead with living to choose another route, I think he was done with spray painting. So together they came up with her costume which consisted of her with a normal card board box around her and a thought bubble attached to a head band, what was she?.... "Thinking outside the box". Super cute an no spay paint! Holman who became addicted to the BBC version of Pride and Prejudice ( thanks to a long stay at Nana's and Papas house) dressed up as Mr. Darcy, you know what every 8 year old wants to be.  Parkin was going to be a Missionary Vampire  but decided last minute to be a power ranger. Interestingly enough only Bella wore her costume to school. Adrianna dressed up as a butterfly princess.

At preschool we had three Halloween performances one for each class, I love the Halloween performances, we have a costume parade and performance all wearing costumes. This year I dressed as Merida from Brave the kids loved it, (Benjamin was my Scottish warrior wearing our families Wallace tartan and a fake muscle shirt, he was HOT)! Sadly he was gone on his annual Mens trip, the Cats were playing in California  that weekend and so he was on the road for Halloween night, we did get to use our costumes at two friends Halloweens parties though.

Bella staged a rebellion at school a couple of days before Halloween. A couple of classes talked of test and homework the day after Halloween and Bella wanted none of that. She made posters that stated "Give Halloween back to the kids no homework and tests the day after Halloween." She posted these posters up in the cafeteria and had kids sign their costume names she got over 200 signatures, luckily we were not called to the principals office! The day after Halloween there ended up being no homework or tests, coincidence....

School Change

We love summer and we also love the start of school. It always seems that the last couple of weeks of summer the kids are bored and I am ready to not be the full entertainment committee. This year all of my kids started a new school. My oldest went from one campus to another within the small district. The school that she had been going to was a middle school but they expanded it over the summer to make it a primary school, K-6th so she had to go to another campus that offers 5-12. Since they now offer elementary within the school district we gladly signed the younger kids up. The downside is that it is a new school so there are kinks to work out and the school is a drive. Its an open enrollment charter school called Basis.

Parkin and Holman study Mandarin Chinese, Olivia studies Latin and Bella is learning Spanish. I think there has been such a rise in the USA to learn Mandarin and I think one of these reasons is for the gospel to be preached to everyone in the world. Both my sons love this language and are doing so well. Parkin will write me little notes in Mandarin and then write the translation on the note, super cute.

Bella is in 7th grade she is taking Algebra II, Biology, Physics, Chemistry, Logic's, English, Spanish  and PE (finally a class that I can relate to). Olivia is in 5th grade she is taking Pre-Algebra, Latin, Classics, English, Science, Geography, Art, Music and PE. Holman (3rd grade) and Parkin (1st grade) both take TLC, Humanities, Mandarin, Kempo, PE, Fine Arts, Math ,Science and All Connections I love this school because their belief is that the average child who is exposed to knowledge with academic support can excel beyond their expectations. I totally agree!

The only kid that did not have to change schools this year was Adrianna. This year I have three preschool classes with a total of 38 students! The best thing about my preschool continues to be the families that come here! Adrianna is a sport she loves all the kids and has an insane memory of the different classes. My schools motto is;  "You are smart, you can learn and you can do it!" the kids here me chant this all the time :)

Walk of Champions

*I have held onto this post trying to find swim photos, since it is November I think I will post now so I can cover a little bit of our Tucson "fall"

Summer in our family isn't just a break from school its swim team season. This year we had to switch leagues because practice time didn't work with our school times. It ended working out great, the team met later in the day was closer to the house and cheaper! We joined the Y's year round team. The kids continue to excel at the butterfly and avoid breast stroke. They did several invitationals and all received medals.  I deserve a medal for sitting out in the heat, swim invitationals are crazy long. But truth is I love watching them race and to try to beat their times.

The best thing about this league is before each championship race they introduce the swimmers, announce their name, who they swim for and what there times are. Then they play rock music as they do the "walk of champions"to the starting block. Its great for the swimmers because it gets them all pumped up and its fun for the spectators because its a rock concert and swim meet in one.

Bella's two relays got first place. She swam butterfly in the medley relay, she got 2nd in backstroke and 3rd in butterfly and freestyle was a crazy close with a 4th place finish. Olivia's two relays got first. She swam freestyle in the medley relay, she got 4th place in backstroke, 3rd place in butterfly and 6th place in freestyle. Holman's two relays got first. Points for a winning relay are huge for a team total points. He swam butterfly in the medley. He got 2nd place in backstroke, 1st place in butterfly (Holman never lost a butterfly race), and 2nd place in freestyle. Holman was the 2nd highest scorer in his age group at championships, he got a special medal for it. The two races he got 2nd place were to his team mate, their particular relays literally lap the other teams.

Last year the Y got 5th place at championships, this year our team won the title with  200 points over the 2nd place team. Coincidence that we joined the team and now they are number one...I think not :)