We had Holman Women Weekend to San Diego, what fun!! Unoftuelty Robin ended up not being able to go and poor mom had herwst in a cast and her other wrist in a splint. We went to a tea party, went to see Overboard at the movies, went to Balboa Park, saw several museum exhibits, participated in an art class and went to the beach. A truly relaxing fun filled weekend. I finally got to appreciate my sisters who normally drive on our trips, driving in California is no joke. We also attended church on Sunday, it was a really lovely ward.
Mom and I almost got into a fight with an ex con.....
When traveling on a girls trip what happens in the car can really set the tone for your whole adventure. When my sister suggested we listen to "The Gift of Fear" I was intrigued. Basically, I learned how to be a cop in 6 hours, specifically Jamie Reagon. The very next morning we woke up just in time to catch the last 10 minutes of our complimentary breakfast which happened to be located on the 4th floor...odd that it wasn't held in the lobby. When we arrive I see a woman in a white sleeveless hoody nearly unzipped (with nothing underneath), a dressy skirt, and combat boots; an odd combination. Instinctively I tell myself "don't stare and most definitely don't look into her face." She proceeds to load up 10 plates of every food item they have, mumbling as she goes. "Stick to the plan cadet don't look up." My mom and I are the first to sit down, my mom speculates if she could use a carryout bag to make the trip out the door. The suspect walks right by our table and begins to quietly threaten us, "my daddy taught me a lot....I know you B#$!% are talking about me... I dare you to look into my face and I will show you how tough you are...LOOK INTO MY FACE!!..LOOK INTO MY FACE!!" "Sweety that is the last thing I am going to do." If we would have locked eyes that lady would have wiped the floor with me. Later my mom said I knew you could take her, Are you kidding me?! A suburban woman of 40, maybe but an ex-con who has been fighting in the streets since birth, no. She would have done moves on me that I didn't even know existed. Who knows where she was hiding her shiv, not the hoody... People read "the gift of fear" by Gavin De Becker it is now required reading for my teenagers.








